I went to scotland which was great the first week and the second my mother became so aggitated she ruined the?

second week and we fought alot, the stress of traveling was alot, then I got home and had one day to recover and immediantly went back to work, then my daughter moved in my small one bedroom apt with her 6 mth old and now I have to have major surgery (hysteretomy) with all this happening so close together I feel like I am going to explode and have before to the point of being put in teathers, need advice